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Even Super Mom Needs a Break

Finding Time for You

By Lisa Marie Metzler

To successfully plan a time out for yourself, get everyone in the family involved. Even the smallest hands can reduce the workload for Mom. Trade babysitting with another mom and use that time to rejuvenate. Give yourself a spa treatment with a hot bubble bath and pamper yourself with quality moisturizers. Indulge with "grown up" things like fine chocolates or a glass of wine with a good book. Connecting with other moms is also fulfilling and relaxing.

Sarah Bell of Marietta, Ga., is fortunate to have a husband who encourages her to take time for herself. She enjoys getting together with her girlfriends to craft at least one night each week. Bell feels adamant that taking time for herself is part of being a good mom. "If you don't respect yourself, who else is going to?" she says.

Something else to remember as we look for light at the end of the tunnel: This time with our children will go faster than we think. As our children get older, we will have more time to ourselves. If we use this time wisely and take care of ourselves, the whole family will reap the benefits.

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